The Muslim Marriage Podcast
With Zahra Hassan & AJ
ASalaam Alaykom! Tune in each week as we discuss all things Marriage from a Muslim perspective.
Episodes are hosted by me (Zahra Hassan), and my Husband (AJ) as well as our unhealthy obsession with terrible terrible puns. They're pretty bad, lol.
Why is the Muslim Marriage Podcast boycotting Spotify?
“European defense tech firm Helsing’s 600-million-euro funding round was led by Prima Materia, Spotify founder Daniel Ek’s venture capital firm…and by Shakil Khan, an early investor in the popular music streaming app. Ek is also chairman of Helsing.”
CNBC, June 2025
According to our understanding, the founder of Spotify is both investing in and is the chairman of a company which produces AI Military technology. This is completely inconsistent with our values.
If you are an Android user like we are, then we welcome you to watch our podcast on YouTube, or listen on Muslim Central (the largest free, advertisement-free online platform for Islamic audio and video content).
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Full Episode List
Ep 32 | "How do you just know?"
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how and when you “just know” that the person you’re talking to is the right one for you.
Ep 31 | "What do we say during the talking stage?"
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about what to talk about during the talking stage, as well as how to gauge connection with a potential match.
Ep 30 | "My wife is a bit masculine."
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about the impact of masculinity and femineity on healthy relationships.
Ep 29 | "Am I too insecure to find a spouse?"
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through some helpful tips on how to manage insecurity when it comes to finding your spouse.
Ep 28 | "My wife doesn't appreciate me."
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about a man who does not feel appreciated by his wife. We review how to have difficult conversations with your spouse as well as the connection between emotional and physical intimacy in marriage.
Ep 27 | "We feel awkward as newlyweds."
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about awkwardness during the newlywed stage. Using our own experience, we provide practical tips on how to navigate those early moments and build a stronger bond with your partner.
Ep 26 | "I am a different race from my husband."
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about some of the challenges that come up in interracial or intercultural marriages.
Ep 25 | "I don't know if I'm attracted to him."
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about whether or not attraction can develop over time.
Ep 24 | How to be Open with Your Spouse
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to start to be open with your spouse and manage hyperindependence.
Ep 23 | How to Remarry as a Single Parent
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to approach looking for a spouse as a single parent.
Ep 22 | Is Islamic Marriage Risky?
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss why the Muslim marriage process mitigates risk more efficiently than other strategies.
Ep 21 | How to Know if a Man is Serious
In this week’s episode, AJ and I review how to know whether a potential gentleman is serious about pursuing marriage with you.
Ep 20 | Why are Men Afraid of Commitment?
In this week’s episode, AJ and I unpack common reasons why some men shy away from commitment.
Ep 19 | How to Make Long Distance Work
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about strategies to help make your long distance courtship or marriage work out, In Shaa Allah.
Ep 18 | How to Use the Dating Apps
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to use the dating/matrimonial apps strategically to actually find a spouse, Bi’Iznillah.